We think we are in control when we ignore our emotions but the truth is that they control us. Ignored emotions get stronger. "I don't wanna try to let my emotions out because i'm afrain i'll get disappointed". Recognize that feeling?
Does it work to be in a relationship if you just don't let your heart be fully open? In other words control your emotions. Maybe for a while but I don't believe it works in the long run.
For example, it's like playing an untuned guitar, it works practically but it doesn't sound good and would you like to continue playing? To be able to create beautiful songs all 6 strings have to vibrate together, in right tunes with the intention to create harmony and magic.
Why don't we allow our "strings" to fully vibrate in authentic tunes? One reason could be the famous Mr Fear that wants to take the lead part. Fears of getting hurt, fear of growing up, feeling too attached or maybe not feeling valued just like we are. Nobody wants an aching heart but how can we change that without controlling, ignoring emotions and building walls around the heart?
We need to go outside ourselves and see things in a bigger perspective. Don't take life too serious, it should be joyful and beautiful. Let go of the past, wash those stains away that we still carry. Dare to go outside our comfort zone, to put an effort, to trust and believe, being part of the big vibration.
To be able to vibrate with someone else we have to start with ourselves. Have unconditional love and steady base to stand on. With base, i'm not reffering to where we are on the planet, which job we have or how many friends we have. I'm talking about feeling complete just who we are.
These are my reflection and something i practice a lot no matter how many challenging i get. I believe in 100% open heart.
Go beyond illusions and vibrate in reallity <3